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#42 How I Became More Confident 如何变得更自信 | Chinese Comprehensible Input

#42 How I Became More Confident 如何变得更自信 | Chinese Comprehensible Input

Update: 2025-10-11
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I feel that in recent years, I’ve become much more confident than I used to be. Let’s talk about the reasons behind this change and how to achieve true confidence.

00:00 Let’s talk about confidence

02:18 The one-dimensional evaluation system and exam pressure in school

05:14 Experimenting during university, entering the workforce, and how moving to the Netherlands changed my mindset

08:49 Reason 1: Embracing diverse ways of defining value

11:52 Reason 2: Trying new things and discovering personal talents

13:55 Reason 3: Stoicism — stop comparing, stop seeking others’ approval

17:59 The overly modest attitude common among Chinese people


我感觉最近这几年自己变得比以前自信了许多。一起来聊聊变自信的原因,以及如何达到真正的自信。

00:00 我们来聊聊自信

02:18 学校阶段的单一评价与考试压力

05:14 大学尝试与初入职场、来到荷兰的心态转变

08:49 原因一:价值评判的多元化

11:52 原因二:不断尝试、发现天赋

13:55 原因三:斯多葛主义——不比较、不求他人认可

17:59 过于谦虚的中国人

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#42 How I Became More Confident 如何变得更自信 | Chinese Comprehensible Input

#42 How I Became More Confident 如何变得更自信 | Chinese Comprehensible Input

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